Only time will tell

Another exhausting great run. Many tots and reflections.

Someone once told me that, juz because I treated him like a best fren, doesn't actually means He is a best fren to me. The younger me harped over this thought for months, I couldn't understand why the feelings are not mutual and reciprocative?

This kinda situation happened many more times after...with a fren, a love interest or juz anyone...anyone who dun really matters to me, but I DO matters to them or vice versa. I realised, sometimes no matter how hard you try to make that someone likes you, accepts you...it juz can't happen. Charmed is the one with a blessed life...one who is constantly well-liked, popular...the 'star' of the gang. And DAmned is the one who's not.

So I learned that it won't be mutual. And I started hating people who can't reciprocate.

But someone taught me one of Life's greatest lessons.

"For it is in giving that we receive." ~St. Francis of Assisi

(Nope. Not St. Francis who taugh me. I juz found his quote very appropriate tat's all!!)

Sometimes we really can derive much joy and happiness juz from giving. Try it yourself.